4 Reasons Why We Should All Be Masturbating

Masturbation is forever a taboo to discuss, sometimes even more of a taboo than sex itself. You can discuss the ins and outs of sex with some inane justification, but with masturbation you only have one explanation and that is pleasure. And it should be that in any case. Masturbation is important and healthy, and necessary. These are all the reasons why masturbation shouldn’t be a hushed up topic and encouraged, especially to promote sexual health and liberation.

1. Know What Turns You On

It’s essential, especially for women, to know what they like in bed. Women and their sexuality is on the lowest most half of the desire totem pole. Even in order to make sex more pleasurable, its important for women to be acquainted with what they like and not just be a recipient to a man’s desire. If you masturbate, you are responsible for your own pleasure and that will only translate in a better time when you do have sex.

2. Limits the Want to Coerce

Masturbation makes you feel sexually in complete control, one of the things that men especially desire. And these men unintentionally or with unwarranted intentions coerce their partners or lovers in sex. Masturbation limits that need to force yourself upon someone when you could just as easily get the pleasure minus the added layer of toxic masculinity.

3. Won’t Feel The Need To Cheat

If we talk only superficially, most people tend to cheat to seek newness. This newness is many times due to lack of physical gratification. But it isn’t that sex has changed, it is that sex has become predictable. It has become a routine. Masturbation curbs the need to seek external newness, when it proves to be a great interval between sex with your lover.

4. Good Release of Pent Up Frustration

Orgasm and sexual adrenaline is directly responsible for releasing endorphins which are happy hormones. Imagine having direct access to these. Masturbation is great for when you have a lot of pent up feelings and anxiety – rather than being rough with your partner you can just indulge in some self-love.

 

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